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How does giving your child choices gets him to listen? – A Guide For Parents















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In this article, I will be sharing how giving your child choices gets him to listen to you.


Why?


Your child gets to decide what to do instead of only being told what to do.


Having a choice gives your child a chance to voice out and knows his input does matter.


Your child is more likely to follow through with choices he makes.



How?


Offer two simple and acceptable choices only and when needed.

Make it easier for your child to weigh each one and decide.


You are ok either way your child decides.


Keep the choices simple.



Determine the non-negotiable.

For example,


It is time to eat dinner. (non-negotiable)


Do you want to sit in your high chair or in your booster seat? (choices)



Do not offer choices in the middle of a tantrum or meltdown.

Calm your child down.

Once your child is calm, only then can you talk about his behaviour and offer choices.



6 Real Life Examples


Put on clothes.

Put 2 sets of clothes on your child’s bed and let him choose.



Choose 2 items to put into bag and bring along with him.

Toys, books or other accessories like crayons.



Put dishes away after dinner.

Do you want to put yours into the sink or I help you to put?



Eat fruits after dinner.

Would you like to have an apple or a banana?



Prefer one parent.

I am washing dishes right now. You can either have Dada feed you milk or you wait until after I finished washing.




Which one of these 2 books you like to read?



Tips to help your child to make good choices


Do not criticize your child’s attempts.

This will make your child less likely to take initiative next time.



Praise your child’s effort and initiative.

Suggest or correct your child in a loving way if needed.



Do not get angry at your child’s mistakes.


I hope all these pointers will help you understand how giving your child choices gets him listen to you.



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As one of the best infant care in Tampines, Nurture Infant House Tampines provides a happy and healthy learning environment for your infants to learn and grow independently.


Our infant care at Tampines have over 10 years of experience in caring for your beloved infants aged 2 months to 18 months old. Check out our Tampines infant care’s testimonials regarding the care that parents’ infants have received at Nurture Infant House.


Check out our infant care Tampines’s gallery for photos taken during activities.


If you are looking for good infant care in Tampines or preschool in Tampines or childcare in Tampines central, do consider Nurture Infant House.


Located beside our Tampines infant care is our Genesis Childcare 1989.


Boasting over 30 years of specialized experience, we have nurtured thousands of infants, toddlers, and preschoolers so if you are looking for childcare in Tampines to start your little ones in life, why not start your search by registering with us for a complimentary guided tour?


Click here to learn more about our child care centre or click here to WhatsApp us if you have any enquiries regarding our playgroup Tampines.


Lastly, would you like to visit our Nurture Infant House to find out more about our environment and setup as well as understand our operations by talking to our teachers and supervisor?



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Nurture Infant House (2 to 18 months Infants)

Blk 433 Tampines Street 43 #01-61 Singapore 520433


Genesis Childcare 1989 (Playgroup to Kindergarten 2)

Blk 433 Tampines Street 43 #01-63/65 Singapore 520433


Opening hours: Monday to Friday (7am to 7pm) & Saturday (7am to 2pm)

Public Bus services: 8 / 21 / 28 / 29 / 293


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